Okay, so this is my bed before. I wanted to share this with you because I love it. My mom made this quilt and the pillows for me and I have loved them for two years now. But, every now and again a change is in need. I'll explain. I have spent the last couple months stressing over a few things, mostly quilting and designing and all the hopes and dreams that come with this job. Also, add teaching into the mix for next year and I find that I have been a little stressed because of the planning I have to do now.
So, what do I do? I stalk Instagram, Facebook and blogs (all things quilty) out there and I become a little obsessed - maybe too much. I find myself taking on more projects, I amp up my goals and I drive myself crazy trying to accomplish more than I need to. And, then I make a critical mistake. I start comparing myself to others. Which of course leads to coveting. Pretty sure I know why one of the ten commandments is "Thou shalt not covet." It really is so dangerous because you start to be unhappy with what you have. Tell me you do this too and that I am not the only one that has fallen into the trap of discontentment. So, I pull back - thank heavens for family who are patient and can help me realize the source of all my crazy.
So, what do I do? I stalk Instagram, Facebook and blogs (all things quilty) out there and I become a little obsessed - maybe too much. I find myself taking on more projects, I amp up my goals and I drive myself crazy trying to accomplish more than I need to. And, then I make a critical mistake. I start comparing myself to others. Which of course leads to coveting. Pretty sure I know why one of the ten commandments is "Thou shalt not covet." It really is so dangerous because you start to be unhappy with what you have. Tell me you do this too and that I am not the only one that has fallen into the trap of discontentment. So, I pull back - thank heavens for family who are patient and can help me realize the source of all my crazy.
So, I went to the store. Bound and determined to have a "trendy" new bed spread - colors and all, but you know what I found out? I went with the colors I love. I am drawn to earthy colors and I always have been. The white fluffy bedspread I wanted became cream, flat and quilted - the turquoise pillows became green. Instead of changing out my rusty orange drapes, I got pillows to compliment them. It was a change that I needed for the moment, but I realized I wanted the colors I love, not what Pinterest shows me are "in."
That is when I realized that the last couple months of comparing myself to others has made me so unhappy. We are all so different and thank heavens for that. We don't have to love the same things and have the same colors in our houses. It is funny how Social Networking is so awesome, yet - it can make you jealous of everyone else. So, I have decided that I will stop it! I will cut back on the time I spend on Social Networks (it was bad, darn smart phone) and I will realize that what I have is all I need. I will stay true to myself and what I love and not worry about others who seem to be accomplishing so much more than me.
So, that means I am back on my schedule. I got off it and boy, that always gets me in a bind. It has changed a bit, but I am completely mom in the morning. I even started exercising today. I think I need that. Since I will have three kids in school, and one that naps - I will only work 3 hours in the afternoon during nap time and one hour after bedtime. 4 hours - that is it. Oh, and that means more time in the evening with Clint, so happy about that.
So, if you find yourself being unhappy with what you have - take a step back, or a break from comparing and realize that each one of us has different talents, abilities and we are all amazing in our own way. I really believe that, I just sometimes lose sight of it. So, thanks for letting me get that off my chest. It really helps to talk about it. Anyway - to thank you for reading, especially this long post - I would like to give away a beautiful fat quarter bundle to one of you.
Sunnyside by Kate Spain for Moda. It is beautiful. It is one of the new lines we have in the shop and I can not think of anything more fun than cutting into this line and making beautiful quilt tops. I want one of you to be able to do just that.
Oh, and the new camera - totally awesome. Still learning, but can you see how amazing having a "close up" setting is? I love playing with my camera and hope to be really good someday. All in good time.
So, two chances to win. Tell me your favorite new line in our shop, then tell me how you stay content and happy in your own home.
Thanks everyone! Good luck.
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I regain feelings of contentment by enjoying nature. I'm so thankful for the natural beauty around us. It makes me realize that I don't 'need' anything.
Your room is lovely, both ways. I like to switch out my quilts often for a new look. Loved your post and glad you found your way back to contentment. Hard to choose between your new fabrics but I think Joy Batiks would win me over since I love red so much. Have a great day!
Giggles is my favorite of the new lines! I just found out I am going to be a grandmother for the first time, and my daughter is convinced she is having a girl, so that fabric would be fun for a girly quilt!
MGM
I like Giggles. I have my first grandchild coming in November (a girl) and I can see me making clothing and stuff!
I love where I'm living, have some great sewing machines and stuff, and am very content to stay home and sew!
I think we have all fallen into the pit of discontentment at some point in our lives. It's so good that you realized it, and the cause of it, and pulled yourself out of it instead of getting sucked deeper in! I try to stay content and happy in my home by realizing just how very blessed I am with my family, home and security, and I try to do things for others as often as possible which is a great way to get out of yourself and be thankful for the gifts God has given to you. Great post, Judi. Lots to think about!
MGM
I live alone, and spend my time quilting . . . for children and the elderly. Quilting brings me a great amount of peace, and I believe the quilts bring love and security to the recipients. To me, quilting is simply a labor of love . . . for the quilter as well as those who receive the quilts. Honeysweet is such a lovely new pattern . . . I can definitely see some of this fabric in my future!!!
Josephine FQ Bundle by French General - that French General line is just gorgeous. I try not to covet, but sometimes you do get caught up in it all. I thinks it's a normal part of human nature. If it wasn't, there would be no need for that commandment!
I like the sherberty pastels in Giggles. Mixed with some black & white to male it pop.
The best thing I do for myself is go to the beach. A quick walk to soak in the sunshine & view are all I need to be happy. It's what feeds my soul!
Honeysweet is my favorite new line. Figtree always has such beautiful things.
I am content and happy in my space when my grandbabies are here. we spend time playing and all the cares about the rest of the world thinks fall by the wayside.
Love the sunnyside. It is so close to the colors of Happy Go Lucky that I had so much fun with. I stay content by putting what I love in my home. It feels comfortable and feels like me!
I surprised myself - I like the Barcelona line. Love the colours
Tks for chance to win.
I enjoy my family, the spiritual food I receive through my religion, and my quilting.
I like "Giggles", I like your new bed spread. missysaprons@gmail.com
To stay content, I just trust the Lord to provide my needs, and I try to remember that He might not be want me to have what I want. missysaprons@gmail.com
I had a hard time picking a favorite but settled on the ModaScapes--such pretty blenders in the bundle. I am so looking forward to your book coming out(I pre-ordered)!!
Bambi
Sweetheart, you are definitely not alone. It took me some time to tune out to what other people and websites were doing....I listen to what I know is right for me and leave the rest up to Spirit. While I'm not the biggest and the best....I am me and I'm doin' my thing and I'm happiest when I 'm doin' that.
Your gifts are evident and you will and DO have all you need....keep lookin' inward...you'll know what is right for you and that will make you the happiest.
Love your posts, your vulnerability and honesty....I wish you all the blessings you wish for yourself and your beautiful family.
Hugs,
Kelly
Good for you Judy........don't let others set your expectations for you. Obviously, each of us is unique and what works for one does not always work for all. You and your family should always be your first priority.(linesmary1@gmail.com
We all seem to covet at some point. When I struggle I turn to my very best friend, my husband he grounds me. You seem to be very hard on yourself remember you are INCREDIBLY talented. I would love some of the new line Barcelona although I would be happy with anything
I occasionally struggle with finding contentment but not often. I have so many hobbies that I love and new stuff that I'm wanting to learn that there isn't much time for negative thought.
Bambi
I love the Honeysweet...I almost bought the pack in Paducah a couple of weeks ago, but went with pb&j instead..thanks for the chance to win!
Hi Judi,very sweet giveaway!
I like "Giggles".
With the stress in today's world,I must stay very close to The Lord and continually count my blessings!
Thank for sharing!
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Think your bedroom colors are lovely! Nice job! And I my favorite new line is that Collection for a Cause - Love. It's gorgeous.....but all of those collections have been right up my alley! :o) And I think I stay content with my home because we are in the process of restoring it....so as we finish another room, it's like I'm loving my home all over again! :o)
I fully understand what you have gone through and I think we all have at one time or another. It's so easy to get swallowed up in 'coveting' what someone else is blessed with and yet if we asked those same people they would probably have their own longings. I read through blogs and am envious of the size of houses in America, I'd love a basement where I could have a laundry room and the chance to have a much larger and more organised seing room. Then I realise I'd have to spend more time cleaning that bigger house and less time sewing lol.
We have our home, its bought and fully paid for, we have our bolt hole 5 mins walk from the beach and I love it here, I think of wat I'm blessed with and contentment snuggles me within its arms once more.
I love so many of your lines but I have to say Honey Sweet is my absolute favourite, its warm, happy and makes me smile.
Peg xx
Lush uptown looks yummy. Thanks so much for sharing. I would love to win this bundle and start cutting...
I de-stress by reading, quilting and taking comfort in my family. It is easy to look around and see what everyone else has, but it also isn't hard to see what they don't have. Everyone is different and unique and their situation may not work for me.
I love the Sunnyside. Have been thinking about it. Love the greys in it and the modern look.
Fave new line is High Street!!
Being content - well after the third move in 12 years I am tired of moving STUFF and especially stuff that I 'needed' and never even used at all or much. That puts things in perspective. The other thing - I have gotten to be a stay at home mom and wife (now that my kids are out of the house) and I don't want to jeopardize that by wasting our money that my husband has worked hard to earn.
I like to look at 'stuff' online as much as the next gal but I either know I will never have it or I decide we can make it. :D
I really appreciated your post. Yes, we do need to be true to ourselves. I try to stay content in my home by eliminating clutter whenever I can. It's not always easy with four people and all their stuff in the house. But uncluttered rooms and surfaces make me feel like there is room to breathe, to think, and to play. So any day that I can fill some boxes for the Goodwill or take out a big bag of trash is a good day. The exception, of course, is fabric! That I never have enough of. :) My current favorite is Lush Uptown.
My favorite new line is Josephine. Beautiful !!
My personal philosophy: If you are not happy with what you have, you will never be happy with what you think you want.
It has made a huge difference in my life.
I love both Sweet Serenade and Modascapes. They're beautiful!
I remind myself to be content by spending time with my husband and my three boys. It's hard to wish for things I don't have when I am having fun with the amazing family I do have. Thanks for sharing your heart. I think we've all had times when we spent too much time looking at others and losing our 'happy' in the process.
Beautiful post! I try to keep things simple. I assign myself one extra cleaning job each day to do during nap time (for example, Monday is mop day, Tuesday is laundry day) and then I use the rest of the time to catch up on blogs or sew. The less time I spend online, the more time I get for creating!
Beautiful post! I try to keep things simple. I assign myself one extra cleaning job each day to do during nap time (for example, Monday is mop day, Tuesday is laundry day) and then I use the rest of the time to catch up on blogs or sew. The less time I spend online, the more time I get for creating!
I'm always excited for new Me and My Sisters designs. Baer Leona looks fun too. And of course Sunnyside...
High Street by Lily Ashbury is beautiful. We are so fortunate to have so many fabric collections to choose from to make our quilts. Thank you for the chance to win.
I really, really like Sunnyside!
Hugs, Phyllis
Dear Judy,
For a very long time I allowed others to trample all over me, use me as their doormat, then one day, a close relative made a comment about our youngest child with autism. Fix his problem before we want any more contact with him. He cannot help for what he got, I was very hurt. That was the moment when I said, no more. Accept us just the way we are, I was taught unconditional love by my parents, especially my late Mom. It has been more than 16 years, we are comfortable in our skins, my son has blossomed. As for those who could not love him the way he is, they are a non existent part of our lives, all their own doing. They are poorer for it. As for the new line from the shop, it has to be Josephine, because of my French Hugenot ancestry. Thank you for allowing your talent to shine, your quilting is art, it blesses all of us who is fortunate to see it at Green Fairy Quilts.
I do so love Kate Spain. her colors always touch me, so Sunnyside is my fav. Thanks.
I love the Josephine line! I can see it already made up!
I keep my mother's philosophy forefront- " I am content with what I have and where I am right now- tomorrow will come soon enough."
I remember an aha moment many years ago. I was nursing my 2nd baby while watching the soaps and I realized that they were controlling my days. Not only that but I was getting sucked into their lives and they never were able to solve anything. And they were making me depressed. So I stopped watching. When I start to go overboard with any passive activity (blogs, facebook, radio talkshow hosts, news commentators, pinterest, whatever,)I remember that soap moment, and pull back because it isn't real. My life is real, my family and their activities are real, face to face people are real. My life will still be wonderful if I don't have everything in this year's color, I don't even like emerald. Besides everything cycles and it may fit you better on the next go round.
I'm glad you have discovered yourself again because what you do is amazing. Many of us compare ourselfs to you, you know. We could become severely depressed about that!
Honeysweet would have to be my favorite of your newest arrivals. I stay content in my home by being able to spend all the time I want sewing and dreaming about sewing.
Love Honeysweet, but Sunnyside and Josephine are also gorgeous...so hard to choose a favorite. The simple things are what keep me happy at home, a cup of tea in the garden, a cat on my lap, and time with family. Thanks for the chance to win!
You are so right, and it takes a lifetime to perfect that wisdom for most of us. The sunnyside is beautiful, and a nice reminder! :)
I like High Street, such bright sunny colors!
I just fell in love with High Street! Would love to win the fat quarters to make my sweet daughter a new quilt for her new dorm room...
I keep content by limiting outside influence such a social medias etc...also I always take a look at all the beauty in the quilts, wall hangings, afghans and pillows that I have made for my home...at the end of the day I know that it was my hand that stitched each and every item with love for my family...its nice to occasionally splurge for that one trendy item you really want, but for the most part I find great joy in what I have accomplished with my own hands.
My favorite would be a toss-up between the "High Street" and "Sunnyside" lines. Thanks for the chance to win some awesome fabric!
Sometimes I need to just stop...and start counting my blessings! I have been given much; faith, family, friends and even some material possessions. When my priorities are straight, then I am content and happy! =)
sweet serenade is my fav new line :)
~robin
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I stay happy and content in my own home by making things I love. That means that often times I'm ingnoring things "I should finish" and doing what makes me happy. Likewise, I don't go to crazy on social media-- I know what you mean and I thank you for sharing in your blog post!
~robin
welchrobin@Hotmail.com
Honeysweet is my favorite.
I really like Lush Uptown right now!
I stay happy when I enjoy the projects I have already completed. I don't change things around too often because when I refashion a room, I usually have a fairly food sense of doing it with my favorite textures, colors, etc.
I think my favorite new line in your shop is Honeysweet, but I also like Sunnyside and would have so much fun doing a disappearing nine patch with it!!!!
To stay focused and happy I try to make sure I greet the Mr. at the door everyday when he comes home with a kiss no matter what I am doing at the moment. And then I take time to talk to him without any multitasking or distractions. It starts our evenings off on the right foot! :) Which keeps us happy!
I struggle sometimes with the comparison game. I have to remind myself that I am blessed with what I need. When I remember to be grateful then all is right in my world!
i am in love with all the new fabric lines but maybe 'brair rose' is my favorete
i, too , have found that to get off of social networks and focus on my family, fabric, quilting style,ect... is the best cure for the discontent:) thanks for the reminder
i would have to say honey sweet would be my first pick with sunnyside being a close second. thanks for the chance to win
That is so easy ... LUSH UPTOWN. oh how I want it!
I stay content by not over commiting myself, by spending as much time as I can with my husband, taking pride in my job, and most of all keeping my faith in GOD!!
I tend to rearrange things in my house every few weeks. Maybe just a few things - like what I may have on a table or the mantle, but it gives the room a fresh look. If I really like the way it looks I might leave it a little longer.
And fabric - gosh so hard to pick, but it would probably be Josephine by FG, although I've got my eye on Sunnyside too (among a few others)!
Lush Uptown is my favorite new line of the moment! I'm glad you were able to figure out how to be less influenced by what's hip in social media. I know the feeling! I try to limit my computer time when I'm at home and spend my time with my man or on the sewing machine :)
My favorite is lush uptown. I stay happy and content by only making things I want to make, and always trying new things.
Lush Uptown is my second favorite thing out right now, after Sunnyside. thanks for the giveaway!
Actually I just purchased my favorite new line from you....High Street....but I am really liking this Sunnyside line too:)
One of the things that makes me happiest about my house is looking around and seeing things I made. So I keep the couch full of pillows and quilts I've made.
Staying content for me includes LOTS of prayer, and spending time in the Word, also a healthy dose of family time never hurts! ;)
My favorite new item from your shop has to be the Honey Sweet line! I love the sweet country look it has, while still maintaining its bright cheery-ness! :)
Usually when I find I "want" something that is in, by the time I can afford to get it, I don't want it anymore. I actually do that with fabric....I make a list of what I want and then a few weeks later will go over the list and find I really don't want most of what is on there.
Sunnyside is my favorite new fabric, I need that bundle badly!
I find that just just loving my family makes me content. I've had to learn to do without things over the years, no necessities, just the extras that aren't always necessary.
lush Uptown is my favorite and has been before I even knew its name. I would see pieces of the paint by number print and "covet" that fabric. Thanks for a great giveaway.
I like to remind myself of where I came from and how very lucky I am to even have a house. Keeps me happy each and every time.
Sunnyside is my favorite new line! For being content, a good snuggle with the kids always helps :)
My favorite new line in your shop is "Barcelona". Thank you for the chance to win. Great post. I think we all lose sight of ourselves sometimes. And I love your bed. It's gorgeous!
I stay content by getting out for a walk with my little family. Tonight we went to explore our new neighbourhood. We are rural now having just moved over the weekend. There are horses in a field at the end of our street and we went to visit them. A couple came over for pets from us. It was a very nice time. :)
Wow such amazing comments. I understand what you said about coveting. I got off Facebook, Pinterest, etc... for about 2 weeks and that helped. Got back on because family seems to post to Facebook and miss seeing photos of kids etc and that sees to be the only way to keep up. I was getting too caught up in some of the quilting Facebook friends and comparing my self and time to them and it was too self-defeating. Taking the break helped and then just realizing everyone has different talents and time so I just need to be happy with what is going on now and being present in my time. It's important to stay true to yourself and your family and you will be fine:-)
I like Collections for a Cause, Love. Thanks for the chance.
Contentment for me begins with realizing that what I have is far more important than what I want. I do get sidetracked at times but a step back regains the right view. Thanks for the chance at your giveaway.
I LOVE Josephine!
Unfortunately I have had some health problems and they have brought life into focus. I have finally acknowledged what is truly important in life and I am completely contented with the wonderful life I lead.
I love Lush Uptown, but Sunnyside is just gorgeous, too! Thanks for the great giveaway chance!
I, too, find myself being jealous of other's houses or their decorating prowess. When that rears its head, I try to focus on the function and activity of our house which is filled with love and learning and lots of happy times. I would rather have my life than any other. The house is just background.
Excellent post, have to remind myself of the same things every so often. All the new lines are lovely, but I especially like High Street.
They are all beautiful!! Love Honeysweet it is my favorite!!
As long as I get to spend time with my kids I am content and happy in our home. Thanks for the chance to win!!
I love the colors in Honey Sweet.
If I find myself falling into that trap I try to rearrange a little to refresh the look of things or a make a little something new to make me smile.
1. I love the new Kate Spain line
2. I've decided that experiences matter not stuff. And I'm working on teaching my daughters the same :)
Love the Giggles from Me and My Sisters. They have some of the funnest fabrics. I am actually trying to find a groove right now. Always tough when school starts and schedules change. Thanks for the giveaway chance.
I really love the Lush Uptown line. So fun.
Sometimes I need a reality check too but then I just have to remind myself of all the things that have changed in the past five years for me (moving cross country, buying a home, getting married, adopting two wonderful pups) and it makes me realize just how lucky I really am.
I'm thinking I really like Sunnyside. Great post too.
To stay content....family history, quilting and reading.
Ooooh I think "Sunnyside" and "Honeysweet" are both gorgeous. And Sunnyside has special meaning for me because it's also the name of the village we lived in when my husband and I were first married, 20 years ago.
I stay content and happy by making a conscious effort every day to find something in my life that is a blessing; someone or something to be thankful for. If I'm having a bad day and can't see it, then I'll try to be that blessing in someone else's life, such as going through the drive-through at a Starbucks and buying the coffee for the driver behind me.
I love Sunnyside from Kate Spain. The blue color is one of my favorites. I lvoe the fat quarter bundle. Joy is my 2nd choice as I love Christmas fabrics. Thanks for the opportunity to participate in a fun give-a-way!
LauraT
I misunderstood the concept of the give away, so I giv it one more shot.
think High street or Lush uptown would work very well in the upcoming most demanding project ever that I'm pre-working on.
How do I stay happy in my home? Mostly by just being here. This year we spent the entire vacation at home and it was the best on ever, with the exception of the trip across the world to Fort Myers, FL which was pure magic. My youngest son can't understand why anyone want to go abroad in the summer when Sweden is it's very best - we have everything we could ever want right here. With the exception of a beach LOL.
I am also happy that I have one kid still in my home for at lest two more years, empty nest syndrome isn't fun and every hour John is still here, makes this a happy home. And when Sam is here, it's a double happy home
My new sewing space upstairs, make me happy all the time, it hasn't really sunk in yet, that this is mine :-D
Hoping for fabric luck, that probably will not happen due to all these comments ;-(
My favorite new line is High Street - I love the pink, pale green and yellow!
I really appreciate your post! What helps me is to remember that we can only read so many books, watch so many movies, sew with so much fabric at a time. Having too much is confusing!
Lush!! i really want Lush!!
my plan is to read thru your comments on contentment in home...but with school starting tomorrow and both kids all day now...getting my house in order is where i plan to start my search for contentment! thanks for a chance.
Love High Street and Sunnyside.
Being content, now there's an ongoing struggle. Yes, social media doesn't help. Focus first on God, then marriage, then children, everything else is gravy. Love your blog.
Thank you Judi for the wonderful post. It really made me think. I also stress all the time over everything and those other things seem to pull me from doing what I love most...sewing and quilting. There always seems to be housecleaning, cooking, gardening, and other "stuff". There seems to be no time for just me! I think I need to do just that. Oh, I could go on and on about the guilt I feel when I do make time to quilt but I won't. Youre right you do feel better just talking about it. I love all your fabrics and especially Josephine by French Quarter. But I need to step out of my box and would love Sunnyside.
I like "Giggles" and "Modascapes" - appreciate the chance to win fabric...
Contentment - daily devotions from the Bible and good Christian music that keeps me focused on ALL He has done for me.
Sunnyside is my favorite--Lush Uptown is a close second! I made the same realization about the Pinterest envy, etc., and gave it up back in January--went back in this past week and found I really didn't miss it! Congrats to you!
My favorite new may be giggles. It's so hard to chose! Thank you for the give away! and you are like many others, not alone at all.
When I was younger and had small children I so envied and coveted those who had! I am older and a tiny bit wiser now and realize how much more I have than many and I try to be greatful every day for what I have. Not just a second of thought but deep thought and thankfulness which helps me to truly be happier. And when I am able to get something I would like to have but knew I could live without it is appreciated so much more than in the past. Also, always go with your "gut" and what you love for the most happiness!
It is really nice when we can just get it out and best medicine of all....feel the same way. Just happy each morning that I get up and start my day! All the new lines are great and would love them all but have to say that "Josephine" really caught my eye....Wow!
Thanks, Gail
What I think is that we all need to be happy with ourselfs and not worry about what others have or like. I love lush and sunnyside right now. Thanks for the chance.
What I think is that we all need to be happy with ourselfs and not worry about what others have or like. I love lush and sunnyside right now. Thanks for the chance.
Jodi... Loved reading your post... Life is often an endless circle of change and challenges... sounds like you were ready for a reset! Congratulations. Personally I find that I get renewed with quiet time. Time to relax without any outside pressure or noise. Sometimes this means free motion quilting on my Domestic and sometimes it means going for a walk or sitting on the dock and listening to the waves of water. Take each day as a gift.... My husband reminds me daily! Hugs, Karen
Hi I enjoy your blog! You're very talented. I like Giggles by Me and My sister.
Wow! Great post~~ I, too, had been feeling a little discontent so I could really connect with your feelings. I'm in the process of changing jobs, and not just jobs, careers-- from the medical world to the legal world. Big changes. These changes will give me more time with my family (on weekends) and more time with the hubs (in the evenings). I'm excited, though anxious.
Love your new lines in the shop too! Sunnyside is gorgeous, but a close second would be High Street or Sweet Serenade. Great choices!
I love Honeysweet. Everything from Fig Tree is beautiful.
Happiness comes in part from being grateful for everything you have (health, children, spouse, material things, pets, job, etc) and from humility.
Love the giggles thanksalot diana
Oh judy i stalk to mostly quilters like you weand all do wish we were superwoman. But we have to enjoy what we have today
thanks diana
I'm on a holiday kick right now (2 Halloween quilts complete and 5 Christmas quilts in the works) so I'd have so say my favorite is the Aspen Frost :).
My home is chaos at the moment. With a 17 month old another use in 2 months I've learned I just let theimperfections go. My house was decorated really cute but then everything had to be shifted up a few shelves due to little hands or put in the garage for a couple of years. I look forward to when I get a chance to actually out it all back together. Love how your bedding turned out :)
you are right about coveting getting us into trouble...it is easy to look at what others have and become unhappy with what we have...remember what our blessings are...there was nothing in the store that i coveted...
I love Josephine, because my new favorite color is red.
I stay calm and content by spending time in prayer and reading the Bible. If I start my day this way, the rest of my day goes better.
I stay content because when I see my children and grandchildren and my husband are doing well and feeling happy. Family is the most important thing: when they are happy I am happy too. I am priviliged !
Awesome giveaway! I like the new line of L. Ashbury High Street. lia.vandenbrand@live.nl
I really like Honeysweet by Fig Tree. Thanks for the chance!
I stay happy and content in my home because I do things I love - playing with my kids, spending quality time with my DH, cooking, sewing, having plants, reading books.
My favorite line is Giggles! Appreciating my family and home keeps me content.
Honeysweet...because the colors are just peaceful today and that is what I need today! :) Your post was exactly what I needed to hear...thank you. :)
I am most content when I stop thinking about myself and think of others. Funny how that works...!
Sunnyside is definitely my favorite :-)
I stay content by looking at all that I've accomplished and being happy about the wonderful family that I've raised :-) There will always more more that you want or more that you feel like you need to do, even when you get those things!
I love Honeysweet by Fig Tree and Co. And Josephine by French General. Beautiful!!
I like to have projects ongoing at all times to keep things fresh.
I think Lush Uptown is my favorite line in the shop right now.
Your post struck a nerve! I have so much to say about this because it was only this year that it dawned on me just how much I was letting social media influence how I was thinking and also how much time I was spending on it. Earlier this year I was determined to blog more and then in March I realized--wait--it is too much. Too much time went into it. I love Instagram and do spend time on there but I now just glance at blogs and don't pay much attention to Facebook. Last year during the elections I hid a lot of people who posted things, from stuff I agreed with to stuff I didn't, all depending on the tone. Also, I was in a lot of various email groups and so on. Earlier this summer I had to go through my email files and I wanted to weep at the amount of time and attention I put into the internet. I have made some amazing friends and it is really my only social interaction, but wow. My kids are now 19 & 23 years old and if I could zoom myself back to the time when they were little kids and I would wish for time to spend on the computer--oh gosh. It just sickens me to think of the time I spent plugged in elsewhere when I could have been spending the time on my babies. I have a friend who limits her time on the computer to one half hour per day. Per day!! I am trying to emulate her. She manages to stay in touch with a lot of people and 'in the know', but still gets a ton of stuff done. I know that isn't exactly what you were talking about, but I know your kids are little & that they keep you hopping. Embrace that and unplug a bit is my advice. That they think you are amazing is the only thing that matters. I have to remind myself of this everyday in my own life!
As for the covet and compare thing--that is hard. I often compare myself to other people but then try to remember that old saying--don't compare your every day life to others' highlight reel. We share what we're proud of. We don't get to see that other people might have maids, or problems paying the bills, or are elbow deep in cleaning a dirty toilet. At the end of the day, what matters is the people in your family and what they think of you, and that's it.
FWIW, I love your white duvet cover. My SIL has one on her bed and then has bed scarves at the bottom for color, along with nice pillows. It looks so nice. I want to do that, but with quilts at the bottom of the bed. I just have to MAKE the quilts. ;)
I think it's a tie between High Street and Sunnyside. :)
I stay happy and content in my home by having a little garden, spending quality time with my husband and kitties and making beautiful things. :)
While Sunnyside is right up near the tippy-top of my fabrics faves right now, my absolutely fave is Honeysweet. I hope I get some for Christmas.
After much studying it came down to Honeysweet and Josephine....and drum roll please....HONEYSWEET!! Kristy
My constant mantra is BALANCE, BALANCE, BALANCE...much happiness is derived from balancing all aspects of life...and keeping those things which deserve top priority at the top of our list. Kristy
Personally, I haven't figured out how to stay content and happy all the time. I fall into society's traps just like you. Then I read something like your post and it helps snap me out of it. Also, I have learned that when I get overly grumpy and envious and discontent it is usually because I'm too focused on myself. I refocus on my husband and children and feel so much better. I remind myself that I don't have to be anyone but myself and my family/home/marriage does not need to look or be like anyone else's. Blessings to you and your family, Judi.
By the way, I like both versions of your bedroom : )
If I start to feel things getting on top of me or throwing me out of kilter I take a cup of coffee out into the garden and sit in my swing chair, just me, the birds and the trees. It's impossible to feel pressured when nature surrounds me with her simple glories.
Judi, I think you are truly amazing and the people you have compared yourself to have nothing on you....trust me but I do understand. I am never happy with myself but happy with what I have...that is where my evil comes in...comparing myself to other....drives me crazy and for sure I will never measure up...I don't live in their shoes only mine. I know what my weaknesses are not theirs...that being said. I am totally happy with what I have just not me. I love everything in your store...can I say that?
I come on thinking that I would put Honey sweet by fig tree down but right above that is the one I am coveting....It is High Street by laura ashbury. Some days contentment means just being able to check on thing, big or small off the list.
I just wanted to say THANK YOU for this awesome post-- I really needed that!
I love the "Giggles" line, such clean colours for me.
My husband and two children give me the most contentment but I still need a bit of time alone most days to ground and re-centre myself. I wouldn't be as happy without my family but I also wouldn't be as happy without a bit of alone either!
It was so wonderful to know I am not the only person who does that. I wish that every person could read your post and think about it. You have made me stop and realize what I am doing.
I really love Lush Uptown and I will have to purchase it at some time because I just have to have to have it. Hope you still have it when that time comes :)
I love the Aspen by Basic Grey! Anything that looks a bit "scrapbook" pulls me in because I have been scrapping for 20 years. As to the second part of the question, I LOVE Pinterest, but I remind myself often that God has blessed me with such an abundance of more than I need, that I need to shop in my own closet before I run out to buy more! I also made a rule...if a new pair of shoes comes in to the house, an old pair has to be donated. That makes me think twice before I buy!
Actually, I've been thinking of Sunnyside all week and imagining quilts to sew. Your flower patch pattern would be adorable I believe. Watching my family wrap up in quilts I've made makes me feel happy and content.
Loving High Street and Honeysweet right now! Things that make me happy at home have to be time spent with my hubby and dog. Just sitting on the couch doing nothing is great if we are together!
I think my favorite is High Street - it's so bright and fun!
I stay content by taking "me" time - time to relax and forget the world. Or Skyping with my nieces; amazing how little kids remind you of what really matters! :)
I like the Honey Sweet line. Oooh, I would love the Sunnyside bundle!!!
Knowing that the Lord has placed me just where is best for me keeps me happy and content in my home.
I can't decide if I like Sunnyside or Honeysweet better. I always try and remember the things I did get done instead of the things that fell to the wayside. You just can't do everything, but be happy with what you did accomplish! For you, it is really a lot!!!
I love Sunnyside; and i maintain a peaceful home by taking time to quilt! it makes the 100 little imperfections around the house seem not-so-serious when i can create something awesome :)
I'm probably not the example to follow here, but I am all about fun. :). I don't stress over the home and housework but instead spend as much time as I can with my family.
Thank you for sharing your story and being so honest. It is easy for us to look at other people life's and think they have it so much better when the reality is we do not know what is truly going on behind their doors.
Studying my Bible really helps keep me grounded, but I'm only human and have those same feelings from time to time.
Love Avalon by fig tree quilts.
communication. Taking time for me ( quilting) I recently am finding my way back to Jesus having him in my life again is helping. Thank you for the giveaway
I love, love, love Sunnyside. Kate Spain can do no wrong in my book!
I liked Giggles in your new lines and that lead me to think of a quote by Erma Bombeck, that helps keep perspective. "If you can laugh at it, you can live with it."
Your guests have given you good mentoring. Enjoyed the postings.
I am loving that Chantilly line coming in December. Beautiful! Sometimes it helps me to go for a walk around the neighborhood. Fresh air, quiet, and peaceful.
First off, I absolutely love your blog and how honest you are. It's so refreshing! I find that two things help me stay content--not comparing myself to others, and expressing gratitude often. Sometimes it's just something little, like my baby taking a really good nap, but when you recognize all the good things in your life, it's hard not to be happy!
Absolutely love High Street. Attending church every Sunday will normally keep me focused. But sometimes it's normally once I try to be someone else that I become lost and uncomfortable making Me realize that I am best being ME!
I keep my bedroom (where I also sew at) clean and tidy. If I have clothes all over or papers I don't feel like doing anything, especially when it's out of control!
I'm definitely excited for Sunnyside!!
I have to choose ONE?! Then Sunnyside is at the top of my list. The colors just speak to me. And how to stay happy - there's a tough one. But I am lucky enough that, for me, quilting is a JOY and not a JOB. I try to enjoy each step in the process and not get distracted by "getting it done". I am amazed at how much more productive this has made me.
My favorite new line in your shop is a toss up between Sunnyside and High Street. Beautiful!
I do my best to stay content by reminding myself how fortunate we are in so many ways: good health, plenty of love, our faith.
Modascapes is what I would choose. They are all lovely but my bed needs a new look since my husband painted the walls.
I surround myself with things I love - art is what I love, or I start a new project. That's how I stay contented.
I think Barcelona is my favorite new line. What great colors!
I was able to give up envy many years ago when I realized what I had was enough for me. Of course, my goals change with time and I'm always working on new projects and activities, but overall, I know deep down that I already have enough and whatever anyone else has or achieves does not detract from my own accomplishments/happiness.
I love Highstreet. My favorite contented things to do are canning garden produce and sewing outside. I love both and I feel so peaceful doing those things.
I really admire how you balance everything.
Thank you!
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It is definitely Sunnyside. Kate Spain can do no wrong in my eyes :D!
I usually read when I am feeling discontent. Stepping into a fictional characters life for a few minutes/hours gives me a fresh perspective!
My fav in your shop would have to be Honeysweet. I am content just to have a home and to be able to live here in the USA.
You really touched my heart with what you wrote. I find myself in the same rut. God has been so good. I have to take your advice to put the social network wasted time and use it to good. May God bless you.
I try to limit the time I spend 'cruising the net. It distracts me from the time I have to be creative, which helps me be content. You do beautiful work. I am reallyvdrawn to V. and Co.'s Simply Style collection, thanks for the give away.
Oh, my! Being content i my home has been interesting since we are in a new one. I have spent the last 6 months rearranging and moving things around and painting. I try to live with the things I have and move them around until I get it right... It has been a bit allusive. But I feel I am getting thre.
Barcelona is my favorite!!!
Judi, you really are not alone! I find myself doing the same thing at times and have to just step back and realize all that I have and what a blessing it is. I am very happy with our house, just most often covet a cleaning crew ;-) Oh to dream!
Also, I love too many of the new lines to just pick one favorite. Thanks so much for the chance to win.
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I like Sweet Serenade and the Modascapes. I'm on a batik kick lately.
Your post is right on. Be who you are and like what you like. Everyone is different.
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love sunnyside and I am content just staying home and doing what I love to do....sew...thanks for the giveaway....
I like Giggles! Such cute fabrics!
It's hard to pick a favorite but it would be a toss up between Sunnyside, Lush Uptown and Honeysweet. I love all three of these lines although they are very different. I think technology although a wonderful tool has also made it hard not to get caught up in "coveting" because everything is so accessible. FOr me, the best way to avoid this is to limit myself on these websites and to concentrate on all my blessings.
I love all of the bright colors, but I decorate with neutrals and subdued shades like Josephine. The bright color is gorgeous but it's too high-energy and I need colors I can relax with.
I like Sunnyside. I, too am influenced by what I see online. I have a smartphone that is taking up a lot of my time. Thinking back on simpler times seems to help ground me. Thanks for opportunity.
I focus on my kids-yes there is probably more dust than other homes, but my kids are happy and that is most important!
I absolutely love this new Kate Spain line! Her color choices are amazing! Thanks!
Years ago, I went to a presentation where the speaker held up a piece of beautiful embroidery, then flipped it over to the back and pointed out the knots and the loose floss and how unlike the perfectly pattern front it was. THAT, she says, is what our lives are all really like - a side we show to others, and a mess behind the image.
Thank you Judi, for sharing how you feel; I am in exactly the same boat. Comparing ourselves to others is NOT healthy, and yet I can't tell you how many times I do it. Reading your post was a nice reminder that I am not alone. it helps :-).
Favorite new line? Sunnyside of course!
no favorites in the fabric realm at the moment -- haven't decided on my next project yet so remaining an omnivore! ;) Sunnyside is awesome tho, very cheery
i sew and read and get outside and sometimes journal when i'm down... i just keep asking myself what the best next step is for me today, and strive to listen that kindness might lead me in a different direction every day...
I do love Sunnyside!!!! I think it's my new favorite...for now ;-)
Little touchs keep me happy in our little starter home (which we've lived in for 10 years!) I just painted every room in a fresh new color. So pretty to look at :-)
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I love the Joy batiks. It is time to start thinking about the holidays you know.
I stay content and happy by finding just a little time each day to quilt or a least plan some quilting.
I think everyone deals with "keeping up with the Joneses." So don't feel bad! Remember how much you love being with your kiddos-the time you have with little ones will fly by. My oldest is off to college this week. It went fast.
Also, remember that you are incredibly talented. There are hundreds of us that wish to be just like you!
I like to relax by reading or going to a movie. Quilting with a beautiful stack of fabric would be awesome too! :)))
Great post, Judi. You are so humble and thoughtful to share your experiences. I really like High Street, scrumptious, Honeysweet.... Oh, I could go on. Love Kate Spain. What a generous giveaway.
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