Friday, August 16, 2013

Content vs Covet - oh and a giveaway!

***update*** giveaway closed.
 before 
Okay, so this is my bed before. I wanted to share this with you because I love it. My mom made this quilt and the pillows for me and I have loved them for two years now.  But, every now and again a change is in need.  I'll explain.  I have spent the last couple months stressing over a few things, mostly quilting and designing and all the hopes and dreams that come with this job.  Also, add teaching into the mix for next year and I find that I have been a little stressed because of the planning I have to do now.

So, what do I do?  I stalk Instagram, Facebook and blogs (all things quilty) out there and I become a little obsessed - maybe too much.  I find myself taking on more projects, I amp up my goals and I drive myself crazy trying to accomplish more than I need to. And, then I make a critical mistake.  I start comparing myself to others.  Which of course leads to coveting.  Pretty sure I know why one of the ten commandments is "Thou shalt not covet."  It really is so dangerous because you start to be unhappy with what you have.  Tell me you do this too and that I am not the only one that has fallen into the trap of discontentment.  So, I pull back - thank heavens for family who are patient and can help me realize the source of all my crazy.
 
after
So, I went to the store.  Bound and determined to have a "trendy" new bed spread - colors and all, but you know what I found out?  I went with the colors I love.  I am drawn to earthy colors and I always have been.  The white fluffy bedspread I wanted became cream, flat and quilted - the turquoise pillows became green.  Instead of changing out my rusty orange drapes, I got pillows to compliment them. It was a change that I needed for the moment, but I realized I wanted the colors I love, not what Pinterest shows me are "in."    

closeup
That is when I realized that the last couple months of comparing myself to others has made me so unhappy.  We are all so different and thank heavens for that.  We don't have to love the same things and have the same colors in our houses.  It is funny how Social Networking is so awesome, yet - it can make you jealous of everyone else.  So, I have decided that I will stop it!  I will cut back on the time I spend on Social Networks (it was bad, darn smart phone) and I will realize that what I have is all I need.  I will stay true to myself and what I love and not worry about others who seem to be accomplishing so much more than me.

So, that means I am back on my schedule.  I got off it and boy, that always gets me in a bind.  It has changed a bit, but I am completely mom in the morning.  I even started exercising today.  I think I need that. Since I will have three kids in school, and one that naps - I will only work 3 hours in the afternoon during nap time and one hour after bedtime.  4 hours - that is it.  Oh, and that means more time in the evening with Clint, so happy about that.   

So, if you find yourself being unhappy with what you have - take a step back, or a break from comparing and realize that each one of us has different talents, abilities and we are all amazing in our own way.  I really believe that, I just sometimes lose sight of it.  So, thanks for letting me get that off my chest.  It really helps to talk about it.  Anyway - to thank you for reading, especially this long post - I would like to give away a beautiful fat quarter bundle to one of you.

giveaway
Sunnyside by Kate Spain for Moda.  It is beautiful.  It is one of the new lines we have in the shop and I can not think of anything more fun than cutting into this line and making beautiful quilt tops.  I want one of you to be able to do just that.

Sunnyside
Oh, and the new camera - totally awesome.  Still learning, but can you see how amazing having a "close up" setting is? I love playing with my camera and hope to be really good someday. All in good time.

So, two chances to win.  Tell me your favorite new line in our shop, then tell me how you stay content and happy in your own home.

Thanks everyone!  Good luck.


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Diana @ Red Delicious Life said...

I really like Modascapes but the honeysuckle (which is out of my normal comfort zone) is calling to me! Since we've just moved across country I'm finding it difficult to be content in our new home. We're renting until we find the right neighborhood so I don't feel like I can truly make this OUR home. I have to wait for a little while yet.

Marilyn Popplewell said...

Blessings to you that you have found contentment at such an early age when for some it takes a lifetime. You have been blessed to have developed your own unique style of longarm quilting. You have such widom in knowing your faith and family are first. Thank you for sharing your thoughts.

Leanne said...

I was looking hard at a bundle of Barcelona yesterday, but the Sunnyside bundle is also beautiful, thank you for the chance to win.

Anonymous said...

I think my current favorite is the Collection for a Cause LOVE. I can so relate to your post, Judi. I think sites like Pinterest can make you feel like you should have it all and do it all. I noticed this a lot as my daughter and I planned her recent wedding. We both came to the realization once again that people matter more than things. People remember how they felt that day, not the decorations.

Leanne said...

In the end what matters in your home is that your children laugh, play and learn and you do too. The rest is not that important, it is nice to see ideas and choices but you are on the right track when you stuck to your own favourite colours and things.

Tryon said...

I love giggles on so many levels!! One the word "giggles" is so happy and the action "giggles" is so fun! Then there is the colors-love them!

Lisa England said...

Barcelona and Sunnyside are the two I love most.

Tryon said...

Now how to I become content. It is an evolving door. Some days it is stopping to hear the birds sing or listen to your favorite song but mostly it is remembering you are loved.

Lisa England said...

I'm not one to follow trends so my house is full of things that suit my taste and make me happy. Lately we've done some updates that I'm very pleased with -- it's amazing what some fresh paint can do!

Marilyn Popplewell said...

As Paul said, I have learned to be content in whatever state I am." It has taken me years to realize that God has placed people in my life for a reason. So now when life seems to change I know God is there moving me the direction I need to go.

I think the Sunnyside line by Kate Spainis my new favorite line.

Blessings to you.

Shauna said...

I love high street

Shauna said...

I have found my key to happiness is being content with what I have. I like to change things up on occasion, but don't buy expensive stuff so I don't feel bad if I want to change

Tamie said...

I'm really loving Sunnyside, really.

Unknown said...

I really like honeysuckle!!!

Tamie said...

Happy and content are constant works in progress. I wish I had more time to quilt but right now I have taken on too many volunteer positions. I am going to let them run their time and then I am going to sit back for awhile. It's hard.

Unknown said...

I find staying happy means accepting things as they come, that means sometime I don't get what I want, but normally something better comes along.

Sandy said...

I love the v&co simply!! God, my family and being a good person, neighbour, friend! It's the little things in life that truly bring joy, not keeping up with the "Jones"

OhioLori said...

OOOOOOOH!!! Definitely looooove Sunnyside!! But I also am lovin' Giggles! :)

Stacey Napier said...

I absolutely love Sunnyside and would be so excited to win it!!

Stacey Napier said...

I stay content by trying to enjoy the moments with my family and not always feel like I need to move on to the next task at hand!!

OhioLori said...

I stay content & happy with where I am, what I have, and with my sweet Husband & our Kiddo's & Grankiddo's.....Life is waaay too short to not Enjoy EVERY single Moment!!

Grab some Bubbles..& a Kiddo sometimes! lol...go out & have such a fun Moment...watchin" & watchin" em go!! :)

QuiltingBeetle said...

I am just content that I get to read your blogs and others to see what everyone is doing. It keeps me feeling charged to make any quilt I can with my stash and then give them away. That way lots of folks will have wonderful quilts. I love the FQ bundle you are showing by Kate Spain but my all time favorite would be anything by Bonnie and Camille. Thank you for sharing your quilting and world with us. Gail S

Ella said...

Love Lush Uptown.

Ella said...

I hang out with a dog. He thinks I'm the most exciting thing that could happen to him all day. The cat totally keeps me in check ego wise.

Diane E W said...

Anything French General is always on my list. Hang in there Judi and make yourself happy and that will make everyone around you happy.

Jessica White said...

I try to be content by realizing that no one is perfect even on Pinterest. And remembering that not everything is about money...which you need to keep up with the virtual Joneses.

Sandy D said...

I really like Josephine. I then went to see who made this line.No wonder I picked it I am always drawn to Fabrics by French General.

Jessica White said...

Honey sweet is my favorite , but I love sunnyside too!

Sandy D said...

I stay content by going and having a visit with our Grandkids. I find they can put you in a whole different frame of mind.They can put a smile on your face even if you do not feel like smiling.

Lynette said...

Your bed looks so pretty with your new cover and pillows. It's a completely different look even though you stayed with your tried-and-true colors. Nice to see something different, too! Too much conformity out there - it's been driving me truly nuts the last couple of months. Although I've never had problems with social media like Pinterest making me feel unhappy with what we have or what I am, I've found that our personal route to being content with our lot and not going nuts trying to acquire things or be like others is to not have any broadcast TV at our home. It's amazing - we still watch shows we like, but only from DVD with no commercials. After 7 years or so of that, I can't stand broadcast TV - as much for the over-commercialization as for the numerous interruptions (do folks really wonder where so much of our children's ADD comes from?).

But back to your post, Judi - I sure hope I didn't contribute to your struggle lately with the comparisons of the twin quilts that you and Kay quilted for me. I love diversity and thrive on seeing it. It was such an honor to have each of you contribute your interpretations, and there's no comparison in terms of one or the other being better - because they are each different takes on awesomeness, celebrating to me what is so wondrous about God's creation - uniqueness and individuality that shines for its very differentness. I hope that's how you felt, too, because it's wonderful that you contributed to such a perfect demonstration of there being more than one right way to create great beauty! Throw conformity out the window and give us confidence in individuality~!

Jodie said...

Sunnyside is my favorite, but I also like Lush Uptown.

JoyceLM said...

Honeysweet is my favorite new collection. I'm pretty content if I have a good book to read & if one of my cats deigns to sit in my lap while I'm reading, that makes me even more content. Thanks.

Jodie said...

Being actively thankful for even the little things helps me stay content. Balance is always a challenge though.

Sharon@LoftyQuilts.com said...

chocolate, warm tea, good music and snuggling with my fluffy puppy

Gemini Jen NZ said...

I would have to say Giggles is my favourite at the moment (I love all the Me and My Sisters range). As for being content, I think it is all about just knowing who you are and what you like, and being with family in a home that is filled with awesome momentos of great memories is what makes me feel content. Thanks for the opportunity to win!

Sharon@LoftyQuilts.com said...

Honeysweet

Tennjenny said...

That's such a generous giveaway and lovely fabric. Lush Uptown is my favorite. Thank you so much!

Lorraine said...

I like the simply style line by v and co. I am most content napping with my 3 month old on my chest. There's really nothing like it.

Tennjenny said...

I don't do Facebook, Instagram or Twitter, and I'm glad! Ok, sometimes I feel left out, but mostly I'm glad. I do, however, read lots of blogs (too many), and spend too much time on Flickr seeing all the amazing inspiration. This may sound a little weird, but I stay content in my home by getting enough sleep. I mean, I don't always, but if I want to be content, the key for me is enough sleep. The difference in my personality and well-being is radical. I'm just one of those people who needs a lot of sleep. Thank you again, and great post.

Becky S. said...

I LOVE Sunnyside and Honeysweet! Thanks so much for the generous giveaway.

Christine S said...

Picking a favorite is hard, I like Barcelona :)
You are right, we don't need to do/be like anyone but ourselves for sure!

Heather said...

The colors from Honeysweet are beautiful.

Christine S said...

For me, being happy and content truly is quilting. It is my "thing" that I love and takes me away from the problems life can deal or it makes happy days even happier :)

Heather said...

We are a military family so our home changes every 3 or 4 years making it easier to be content and happy with what I've got. I also try remember that what makes me truly happy is the people not the stuff in my house.

BKringel said...

Hi,

First of all, I once got a fortune in a fortune cookie that said "Enough is as good as a feast." I love that. Just to be content with what I have. It is enough and that is awesome. Your post is just lovely and I agree that networking sites like Fcebook create some sense of false need in us. Not so healthy. You are doing a wise thing by deemphasizing it.

Secondly, I love the Lush line. But there are so many pretty ones. You guys carry lots if pretty stuff.

Thanks for the opportunity..

Marsha said...

Fresh Serenade, Lush Uptown, Sunnyside, - oh I love them all! It is so hard to choose! The things that we should do - we don't; while the things we should not do, we keep doing. Prayer is the answer for me.

Barbie Mills said...

I like the colors in High Street.

I agree with what you said! Being true to yourself is so very important.

Donna~~ said...

That's a lovely giveaway stack. I don't always stay content, but mindlessly sewing helps. As does being with flowers and nature. Taking time not to be in a rush, and realizing that material things really don't matter--they'll be "out of style" tomorrow. Your home should contain things you love--and your free time should be spent doing things you enjoy or care about. My favorite fabric is Giggles--happy fabric...that helps me be content too!

Kathy said...

I love Honeysweet by Figtreefabrics. The colors are so nice. I like most of their fabrics.
I stay content by working as a nurse, going to church, sewing quilts and playing with my 2 adorable Boston Terriers ( Lucy and Cameo). I also try to be happy with what I have and not what others have. It is always a struggle, we won't more. As I get older I wonder why I had to collect so many things. I would like to declutter and live more simply...
Thank you for the chance to win the give-a-way...
Be happy and enjoy your family. Wish I had had children. They are God's gift to us all...

Pamela said...

I really like several, but Sunnyside is my favorite! Staying content is hard, I find it easiest when I remember how much I have to be thankful for and journaling my blessings. So many things that I take for granted, but when I see them in black and white it really makes me feel content.

Four dogs and one quilter said...

I love Me & My Sister Giggles; the bright, pure colors just make me happy.

Lisa Larsen said...

I love Honeysweet. Reds and oranges- what's not to love? I married my best friend. Its not hard to be content when you do that.

Four dogs and one quilter said...

I stay content and happy in my home by doing the things I love, gardening, sewing, quilting, and by being with people and creatures that love me.

Michelle Jensen said...

If I get pick just pick again... I just loved your post and wanted to comment. In so many ways you and I are similar from what you described and it is so sweet to hear your point of view. I work hard and want a lot of things but mostly I love my family time and so it is nice to strike a better balance! Right ;) PS - I am a long-arm quilting mom from Utah but up North, that designs patterns and loves my kids and hubby, see I told ya :)

Alina said...

My favorite new line in your shop is "Sunnyside" and "Giggles." Love the colors.

And how do I keep myself content and happy in my home? Simple, keep organized and sewing.

Sue said...

It's tough to make a choice, but I think the Joy Batiks, I'm a sucker for batiks every time.

Sue said...

I'm content in my home when I'm creating, when I have my family around me & when I get things uncluttered. I need to work on the clutter right now, my creative space is overflowing!

Sonia B said...

I'm pretty in love with anything Kate Spain. Thanks for the chance.

Sonia B said...

How to stay content? Just trying to be the best me I can be. I read a quote once that said, "If both of us are alike, then one of isn't necessary." (something like that) That made me realize that it was important that I AM different, that I bring something different to the table, a new way of looking at things.

quiltmania said...

My favourite new line is Giggles, it is soooo cute!

quiltmania said...

I stay content and happy in my home by surrounding myself with family and quilting, in that order!

gardenladyinutah said...


When I am feeling envious of someones talent or home or ect I go to a little stream by my house and just sit and listen to the ripples. It doesn't take long for me to remember family is better than things. Sunnyside reminds me of flowers.

Marelize Ries said...

I too sit for hours every day, reading blogs, instagram and pnterest, and yes it an be a bit overwhelming, especially since everything I see I want, I find it hard sometimes being just happy with what I have, but the moment I've made/quilted something pretty for myself I feel a bit better, so my best therapy i guess is quilting... I have to just remind myself that not all of us have or will ever have it all, if we did what will drive us?

Marelize Ries said...

I really like the Giggles by me and my sister... Bright and cheery.... Thanks for the chance :-)

mascanlon said...

High street....have always loved pink and yellow together and the gray puts it over the top.

Tammy said...

The new Honeysweet line by Fig Tree is divine! Thanks so much for your generosity.

Tammy said...

Fig Tree's Honeysweet is divine. Thanks for your generosity.

mascanlon said...

Thanks for the chance to win this lovely stack. For peace of mind it's hand work and thoughtful assessment of what I do have in my life.

Cindi said...

I love the Sunnyside line, and Road 15.

Tammy said...

Judy, you are so right about content vs. covet. We can really get wrapped up in what others are doing and have. I'm content when things are just plain simple. For some reason there is a freedom in that. Thanks again.

Brakmack said...

Thanks for the great post and chance to win. I love Sunnyside! I also fall into that trap of comparing talent, time and self worth when I see everything that is on the sites I visit. You are not alone. The best I can do is step back and enjoy when I get to sew, enjoy the time I do get at home when I am not working to be with my 5 year old son and husband. At times i have to remind myself to be present and enjoy NOW. Thx again!
Cristina

Cindi said...

I really needed a reminder about being content. =) I too have to limit the computer time in order to stay sane. It is an easy trap to fall into, comparing myself to what I see online. I try to focus on the blessing I do have.

Frances Meredith said...

Took a look at all your new lines, and could think of a project for them all! High Street reminds me of ice cream and Summer, I love the new Basic Grey range, and it will be hard to avoid Josephine by French General. Choices, choices!

Paule-Marie said...

I love th Joy batiks.. I guess I am just in a Christmas mood

Debbie said...

I really like Giggles. I am very content by counting my many blessings.

Paule-Marie said...

I just keep on doing the things I enjoy, quilting, reading, cooking and baking. We just moved into our new house, finally. I have the peace & quiet I have been waiting for. We are out in the country about 15 miles from town. Close enough to get there, but far enough away to relax.

Carol said...

My favourite line is High Street - but there are lots of great fabrics.

Carol said...

I'm retired so I don't have to worry about work - thank goodness. I read a lot - something that has always been important to me, but with five sons, I didn't often have the time. I enjoy cooking and quilting and am able to do things I enjoy.

SasNi said...

I fell in love with the High Street Collection from Lily Ashburry, nice colours.
Saskia

Unknown said...

What an inspirational message, I have cut back my computer down to half what I used to, and no longer try and set my self mad goals. I certainly feel healthy and our home life is more calm.

SasNi said...

To stay content and happy in my home I love to have a good dinner with my husband, using the good dishes and having a glass of wine also using the good glasses. Dekorating the table and having a calm moment is so inspiring and lovely.
Saskia

Tammy said...

My current favorite is Hill Street by Lily Ashbury, with Sunnyside being a very close second. I'm counting the days until Scrumptious is available. Staying content can be a challenge, some days more than others. When I start feeling down or jealous, I remind myself of how much better my life is today than it was 7 years ago, when I was single, and had been for many years. I was lonely a lot of the time, even with my wonderful family. And then, I met the man who is now my husband. He is a constant reminder every day of how amazingly lucky I am.

Mirabelle said...

Favourite fabric line at the moment would have to be Sunnyside of course, and it would be perfect for a special little girl who has just come into our lives. What keeps me content is playing in my sewing room creating beautiful quilts for family away from all the negativity in the world today

memmens said...

Thanks for sharing and be open and honest, I love social media but you are right it can suck the life out of you. I'm loving the look of Barcelona.

Anonymous said...

If you compare yourself to others, know that in my quilting world you always come out on top. I have looked at some other LA quilters work, but I never seen anything like yours. Like ;-)

As one should not covet, I don't covet that FQ bundle....yeah right - who am I kidding?

From Sweden with Love.

Angelia Lanouette said...

My favorite new line would have to be Sunnyside....the colors remind me of my all time favorite Good Fortune. Life has been a little out of whack for the last year and the only way I have found to cope with everything is to lose myself in my sewing or by reading a good book. Thank you for the generous giveaway!! anglanouette at gmail dot com

Dawn said...

I've got to pick Giggles. My fav colors! ;)

Melia Mae Quilting said...

Thank you thank you for this post! Especially on the eve of my sister's wedding! I can't tell you how I stay happy with myself but how about how I am trying to just be happy with myself and not comparing myself to all the younger bridesmaids! I am telling myself that I have two beautiful kids and I love being a "mom". Even though I am not necessarily red carpet ready for the wedding, I have a beautiful family and hopefully everyone will see what God sees of me instead of my looks!

Melia Mae Quilting said...

Lush uptown!

quilt455 said...

it is so difficult to pick just one favorite from all the wonderful fabrics you have in your shop but I am going with Sunnyside. I will be dreaming about winning this wonderful give away. Thank you so much for the chance

LeAnne said...

Giggles is my favorite (for now).

LeAnne said...

I usually try and exercise and start eating better when I am feeling out of sorts. Helps quite a bit.

quilt455 said...

I stay content by cleaning my sewing room. Once done then I creat something from a mug rug to a full size quilt. If I am sewing, I am content.

Linda said...

I try to live by believing my cup is half full and not half empty. A very dear friend once said it to me when I was going through a similar episode in my life. Oh and I love Josephine.

annerd said...

I love Giggles!

Thanks for the giveaway!

annerd said...

Thank you so much for your wise words. It is so easy pick certain aspects of other's life and feel that you should match all of them. One of my biggest turning points in life was when I decided that our home should be for the persons living there, first and foremost, not to meet other people's expectations. Now, I love when people come over because I can focus on them, not worry if the house looks great.


Thanks for the giveaway!

Vjquilter said...

My favorite new line is Honeysweet! I love the colors and think they are yummy! Being content and happy is remembering to be grateful for all the blessings that God has blessed you with. God gives us what we need and so much more than we deserve and that is wonderful!Reading and hearing what God has to say in the Bible helps me to be thankful.

Lynn W said...

Lush Uptown, what bright, cheery colors.

Lynn W said...

I have never cared what anyone thought of me, in any fashion. I am content with myself which I think brings contentment to the world around you.

Meia Ameruddin said...

High Street would be my first choice! such beautiful colours.

I'd actually take a moment alone and just go through all the good things I have around me. I actually makes me realize, 'Oh, there's so many and I'm still asking too much!'. And blogging helps a lot.

Conlill said...

The fabrics are all so beautiful, but if I have to choose I would pick "Giggles" & "Sunnyside"
Just Awesome!!!

DeborahGun said...

My favourite is Lush Uptown, but Sunnyside is a close second :-) Thanks for a lovely giveaway.

DeborahGun said...

I try to stop and remember what I have compared to so many - and that makes me thankful :-)

Lostrivernurse said...

I love batiks and Christmas...so Joy Batiks is so refreshing. I try to "allow" myself quilting time everyday...even if it is just 15 minutes of "organizing my stash". When I get down and feel like "poor pitiful Pearl", I try to remind myself how small my problems are compared to others!

texasboxerlover said...

Wow, reading your post was like reading my mind. I have found myself in the same situation and have been working hard to change directions in my life as well as my quilting. Thank you for posting these thoughts! My favorite new fabric is definitely Giggles. Doesn't matter what the fabrics even look like, what a happy name!

Maxwells said...

Honey sweet is my new favorite.
I think I'm the same as you. The more I spend on Instagram, Pinterest, and blogs, the more I am not happy with my home and my things. Also just had a baby so I've been watching a whole lot of hgtv while I nurse. Soooo not a good idea! I think cutting back on that stuff helps a lot! And spending that time on useful choices, like working out like you said, but also good reading. So totally understand where you're coming from! Really needed to hear this :)

Hildy said...

My favoite new line is Honeysweet love the autumn and vintage colors!
hildy(at)ebertzeder(dot)de

Hildy said...

This won't help you but I never take work home with me. Work is work and home (free time, family, friends,...) is home.
And don't try to be someone else be yourself:-)
hildy(at)ebertzeder(dot)de

Miss Marker's Quilts/Margaret Leuwen Quilting said...

I really do like the line Sunnyside BUT Giggles has me smiling! I'm not certain if its the actual fabric or the name of the design :)! What do I do when I get into what I call a 'funk'? I do exactly what you just did, I give myself a good talking to and count all of the blessings that God has given me!!

Ruth said...

I was immediately drawn to Giggles!

QuiltSue said...

I love the Winter's Lane range.

Fran said...

I really like the new Lush Uptown line, so gorgeous! I stay content & happy in my home by simply being in the moment, loving my family, sewing when I can & being grateful for all of these things.

Karen M said...

Bless your heart, Judi. You have found the secret to contentment. You have to balance work, family, and self. Each is important, but none should take over from the others.
My favorite new line in your shop is Josephine. I just love the reds in French General's lines. Thanks for the chance to win.

Joan and Kevin said...

I love High Street!
To stay content in my home,
I usually redo a room a year. Also
I change rooms around move the
furniture and remove clutter.
Thanks for the giveaway!

Noela said...

I love Sweet Serenade. When I was younger I wanted everything to be just so but now I don't worry so much and try to spend some time each day doing something I enjoy, like time with my family or quilting. Time goes too fast to waste it on things that aren't important. Hugs......

Sharon said...

I think I like sunnyside best. By the way saw a quilt of yours at the aqs show in grand rapids and thought it was beautiful. You do such fine work.

Jeanie said...

All lovely, but I picked Honeysweet. Glad you are finding your way and listening to only your own heart. We have to be true to ourselves, then the rest will fall into place. Thanks for the giveaway!

Jeanie said...

Besides God, my pets throughout the years have been such a comfort to me. They do the goofiest things and always bring a smile.

Jackie's Stitches said...

Besides Sunnyside I'm loving HIgh Street and Giggles. It's summer so brighter colors are what I'm feeling right now. Thank you for sponsoring such a generous giveaway!

Jackie's Stitches said...

It sounds like you have a good plan to bring your life back into balance. It's sometimes a struggle for all of us to not compare ourselves to others. My kids are grown and I work full time (stressful job) and I find I'm most content when I'm home. It's definitely a place I enjoy and I love being with family and my pets. Nothing makes me more content than family!

Diane said...

my favorite would be a tie between Giggles and Sunnyside!

Good for you in finding your balance again. I think it's a ongoing battle there is always one more thing we could be doing...

Bev said...

No matter your age, we must always resist the temptation to compare ourselves with others. It is a lifelong lesson for many of us. Sometimes it still creeps up on me. So good that you realize this now so that you can make adjustments while your family is young.

I love Sunnyside. Fun colors and prints.

Diane said...

I try to have a quiet 15 minutes (with coffee) in the morning just being thankful for all the blessings I have

Josie McRazie said...

I feel and understand more than you can know. Anyway. I often have to remind myself I am VERY lucky with what I have. My loving husband (of almost 19years) 3 pretty great kids! Anyway. I am still geeking out over Glamping!

Sue Daurio said...

I like Barcelona!

Sue Daurio said...

what keeps me happy is working in the garden and sewing at least a few hours a week. Seems as though when I do either of those, all the stress and worry just take a break for awhile.

Holly said...

Lush Uptown is so beautiful!

I'm not much of a comparer - and when I do compare myself with others, I remember that we all have strengths and weaknesses and special abilities.

K2 said...

Is it wrong if I say that Sunnyside is my favorite? I love the modern bright colors with lots of yellow (my favorite color). If I have to pick a second favorite it would be High Street by Lily Ashbury. I stay content at home by being creative. Trying to spend a little time every week doing things I love.

Jacqueline said...

I think I would go with Honeysweet as a favorite right now.

When my house is in order I am content. It doesn't have to be "see your reflection in the floor" clean but everything has to be in its place. I get real antsy when I let things get messy (sewing room) for very long.

Thanks for a chance.

Cindy said...

Sunnyside is my favorite line but I also love Honeysweet! Thanks for such a generous giveaway! I agree with you- sometimes you just have to step back and be grateful for what you have. Alittle rearranging and some fresh paint works wonders for me for alittle update!:)

Lori said...

My favorite line is Honey Street. Love the fall colors

Lori said...

I stay content by stopping and being thankful for all the blessing I have. It makes me realize I already have way more than I could ever deserve.

Denise in PA said...

Great post, Judi! Very thought provoking. Your bedroom looks great! Glad you went with your gut. I'm sure it brings peace every time you walk in. I think your surroundings are so important to how you feel. Filling my home with things I love helps me be content and happy in my home. Of course, I'd love more space, bigger closets, etc., but I am so very grateful for what I have. As far as I what I love in your shop - of them is the High Street by Lily Ashbury! Thanks so much for the chance to win!

Anya said...

I really like Barcelona. Thanks for the chance!

Anya said...

I stay content by making sure my definition of success doesn't involve how much money I have and how much stuff I have. Thanks again for the chance!

S said...

Sunnyside and sweet serenade

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Izzy said...

I love Giggles! Thank you so much for the giveaway!

Izzy said...

I stay content by focusing on what I do have and being grateful for it. Thank you for sharing.

Carolyn said...

You've explained what happened to me a few years ago perfectly. My nemesis was the Yahoo longarm quilters group. I saw all of the beautiful work they were doing and completely lost my confidence in what I could do. Long story short, I wound up getting a full time job that pays better and limited my quilting to my own projects. Now quilting is a hobby again and makes me content. I love Josephine and Honeysweet...they're both beautiful!

Joanna said...

Aspen Frost is one of my favorites. Your choice of colors for your re-do looks so calming; I congratulate you on figuring out what you needed to make you happier.

Joanna said...

I've always compared myself to others and that just doesn't do any good. Now I try to do what's right for me, and when I have fears or doubts, I ask myself, "Who's going to stop me?" and the answer is always "I stop myself."

Laughing Owl said...

Thank you for sharing your thoughts on this, as somehow it always feels better to know you are not the only one. I am very far from being an experienced or able creafter, and I spend way too much time reading other people's blogs. This results either in starting too many projects, trying to make everything and being upset when it does not work out well (and it usually doesn't, as no skill comes at once) or in being afraid to start anything, because I can't be as good as those super great crafters I see on the web... I haven't actually found a recipe to cure this, so often enough my reading list provides doubts and distress instead of inspiration it is supposed to give. But I do hope to find a way to fight this one day :)
Oh, and all of the collections in the shop are wonderful, I actually want them all :) But if I were to choose one, I would choose Lush Uptown.
Thank you for this chance to win fabulous fabrics.

Xenia
(owl.laughing@gmail.com,
owlyhandmade.blogspot.ru)

Karee said...

1st: Yrs ago I was asked to run for a statewide political office (my cousin was Governor in another state, and I grew up in a hyper politically active fam) so I was thrilled! And I was conflicted. I was homeschooling 3 bright sons and I had known in my heart that my dh was going to be called to serve as Bishop in our part of the vineyard. So how could I do it all? After the 4 hr mtg when I was asked, strategy, financial support, etc was discussed I sat on our sofa with dh and just sobbed. He knew I wanted this opportunity to change the world big time. He knew I would bring courage to do the right thing, to speak out, the spiritual foundation to choose well, et al.
But I just sat there and sobbed.
He took my hand and said, "You know what you have just found out?" I squeaked out a "Yes" and a "No."
He said, "You have just realized in a very personal way, The World Already Has Its Savior. It doesn't need another."
This bit of wisdom has since saved me every time I try to be more than my most impt role. Be content through balance. You will never be content through things, awards, books, as sometimes the soul price is too high.
2nd: As cute as those fabrics are, I am content with the fabrics I have, pass my winnings onto someone else.
3rd: Please do not feel pressure from us to DO or BE more. Just last week I studied your blog for FMQing ideas for a customer's bold top and found numerous skills to use in creating a great finish for a bridal shower quilt. So Thank You for sharing your talents. Learning and doing bring contentment.

Emily said...

I think my favorites are either Sunnyside or Giggles. Speaking of giggles, making time to play with my almost two year old makes me happy. His giggles are the best!

Jodi said...

I am loving High Street right now. My favorite way to destress is to get up on a Saturday morning have a cup of coffee and then sew or read a book in silence.

carolann said...

Love, love, love Sunnyside!! Kate Spain never disappoints! carolann427@aol.com

carolann said...

Great post! I step back and give myself a reality check, counting my blessings.

Remnants and Relics said...

I was looking at your new lines the other day, in your shop, and thought that "Sunnyside" would make such an awesome light to dark (side to side) quilt. It would certainly reflect the quick weather changes in Florida. Now you are giving away the fat quarters. I would surely love to win.
I also like your Frame pattern. Never thought about framing string blocks like that. Great idea!

When I get moody I get in the car, drive two miles to Baskin Robbins and eat a scoop or two of Jamocha Fudge Almond ice cream. It works every time.

Shirley said...

This is the first thing I read this morning and I could have written this yesterday myself! So true that social media puts a lot of unnecessary self-imposed pressure on us.Small doses are fun but balance is crucial! Thank you! And I was drooling over Sunnyside last night! love it!

Anonymous said...

Hi Judi,

I can totally relate to you. It's the grass is always greener thing, but also there are so many choices out there and with the internet you can see so many instantly! It's easy to want all that stuff...just remember its stuff. Learning to be content with what you have is not easy.

I really like Josephine by French General.

Thanks for the giveaway.

Leslie

Rose M. said...

I think Giggles is so adorable - all those bright, happy colors! But all the new lines are great.

Rose M. said...

I try not to get caught up in all the hype of whats "in". Don't get me wrong, I'm like everyone else and would like "new", but I think I'm a very practical person. As a kid growing up (there were 6 of us) we didn't have a lot, but we made do. I think we live in a very "throw away" society and that's just not acceptable to me. I'm not on Pinterest or Instagram so I don't get caught up in any of that. I guess I'm just a content person and I would love to stay home and create more than anything else.

Andra Gayle said...

I love the Lush Uptown! You are an amazing talent when it comes to quilting. We all want to be like you so strange to hear that you are wishing just like we are. Life is funny that way! Thanks for your inspiration! Thanks for the chance to win!

Quilting Babcia said...

Seems I'm so often reminded of how blessed I am - just yesterday in Walmart there was a middle-aged lady wearily pushing a cart one-handed. Her left arm was entirely missing and she walked with the aid of a prosthetic left leg. Thinking of all those little everyday tasks we take for granted that become a major undertaking when faced with this kind of misfortune. My stash closet overflows, and I know you'll find just the person who needs your wonderful giveaway.

Carla said...

Well, I do love the new Sunnyside. I stay content by being thankful for what I have. One needs to only turn the T.V on to see turmoil everywhere. We are so blessed.

sue said...

My favorite line would be Giggles. As for being content..I wish I had words of wisdom. You really do need to step back, take a breath and reflect. I have a sister I envy and sometimes it's tough, but I am happy with what I have and just accept we are two different people with two different life styles and I love my family and material things just aren't there for me. So I love the people and not "things".

Sandra said...

I stay happy and content by quilting while my husband watches Nascar races. Your giveaway is one any quilter would love to win, including myself. I simply adore Kate Spain and enjoy her lines of fabric as well as her quilting pattern. Thank you for giving all of us, your followers, a chance to win.

Sandi Timmons
sandit1@sbcglobal.net

Petit Design Co. said...

wow, sunny side is my favorite. It's so fun and cheerful

Emily C said...

I love High Street and Honeysweet.
I avoid Pinterest like the plague. My issue is that I consider it a waste of time because I can never afford to buy everything I would want and I end up making myself feel bad that I am not more successful = more money to buy everything. So avoiding creating the problem helps me be happier. (besides school + internship + helping gma w/housework leaves me a little strapped for time)

Petit Design Co. said...

I stay content by focusing on the stuff that really matters, like my family.

Beth said...

I think Giggles is my favorite! but there are so many that are lovely!

Beth said...

When I am feeling discontent I try to get outside - away from "things" and "stuff"

Anonymous said...

Love them all don't really have a favorite, my daughter would love any thing made with the Sunnyside fabric line, hint, hint. About the whole social media thing...stay true to your heart you will never go wrong. Have you ever thought of folding your mom's wonderful quilt on the bottom of your bed?

Barb in Mi said...

Your blog post is oh-so-true, love your new bed set-up. My favorite fabric line is currently Barcelona.
How to stay content & happy: yes, I too avoid social media and TV for several years by now! I think this "more is better" and you have got to have all things advertised to keep up, is silly, expensive and still leaves you feeling empty and dissatisfied. Love to spend time in nature to bring things back into perspective.
Thanks and best of luck for you journey!

Elise Lea said...

I personally love sunnside. The colors are simply gorgeous and the prints are beautiful! Thank you for this opportunity.

Jenny Jensen said...

I really like the Barcelona line.

Elise Lea said...

I stay content always trying to remember in all the ways I am blessed. Sometimes I feel frustrated about something in my life but I work hard to always remind myself that God is in control and he has a plan!

Jenny Jensen said...

To stay happy in my own home I just try to make sure its always picked up, fresh, and not too untidy (which is difficult with young children). Especially at night before going to bed...I make sure things are picked up so when my kids wake me up before the sun, I don't feel overwhelmed with clutter on top of being completely exhausted. I'm not too big on decorating, so I don't worry a lot about that. Sure, I'd like to have a cute, decorated-like-a-magazine house, but right now I'm just trying to keep my kids alive, healthy, and happy. They are my world.

Dee's Diary said...

Lush Uptown is my fave. I don't think it's especially harmful to admire others, it keeps us striving. At the end of the day I set my own priorities.

cbronso1 said...

I love the honeysweet! I always laugh a lot in my home!

Andrea said...

The Lush Uptown is definitely a favorite. So beautiful. Thanks for the chance to win these beautiful fabric.

Andrea said...

Getting some prospective is always a sure way to being and staying content. In some stages of life that has meant regular volunteering. Currently, I have little ones at home so now gaining that prospective is through being informed about things going on in the world (like the plight of refugees in the Sudan) or in my backyard (through a food pantry we donate to).

Sarah Craig said...

My favorite new line is, of course, Sunnyside! Kate Spain rocks!!

Cindy F said...

I love the fabrics that Kate Spain designs so I'm loving that Sunnyside! Thanks for the giveaway!

Sarah Craig said...

And I stay content by quilting for others. Working with our quilt ministry has helped me remember (constantly!) just how blessed I am! So I quilt for the ministry about 30 hours a week, and take care of my adorable granddaughters to stay young at heart!! A recipe for contentment!

Unknown said...

For myself I like Barcelona, for a little girl I think a quilt out of Giggles would be fun.

Unknown said...

I try to stay content by thinking daily about what I am grateful and quilting quilts for cancer patients.

Cindy F said...

Your post hit close to home as I had been looking at other people's lives on Facebook and thinking I would rather be there than here sometimes. I remind myself that what you see is what everyone wants you to see and often people don't post their own struggles. I try to look around and remind myself how good I have it (and I do have it good) and consider myself blessed which I know I am. Cutting down on social media helps a lot!

Butterfly George said...

Staying true to myself is important to me too. Love Josephine 1st and Giggles next. Stay true to yourself and be happy. ButterflyGeorge

Karen in Breezy Point said...

I always love the Collections for a Cause lines. I have been trying to stay off line more and more and blog less--I was missing my family time!

Sandy said...

I LOVE Sunnyside! Thanks for the opportunity to win! :)

Sandy said...

I find that talking to my husband about things that worry or bother me helps me be more content. He is always able to calm me down and put things into perspective. I try to remind myself that no matter what happens to me, there is always someone out there dealing with something much worse and I minimize their problems by crying about mine.

Joan H. said...

"Giggles" are my kind of colors! I keep my cool and an optimistic attitude by daily prayer, contact with my family and a little time to do some quilting

Michelle said...
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Gill said...

Sunnyside for me!!

Michelle said...

I love love love the Honey Sweet bundles, anything by Fig Tree quilts is my favorite!

And I'm a lot like you, I like the warmer colors in my house, just makes it feel more cozy! But I do love looking at all the aqua, red and white rooms!

Gill said...

I try to stop and look around me - and realise how lucky I am!

Gale, Ky quilter said...

My favorite new line? I love Kate Spain's Sunnyside! I love anything Kate Spain does. She is so creative! Thanks for the chance to win a bundle of this awesomeness!!!!

Karen said...

Thank you so much for this post. I know you're not the only one that suffers from discontent sometimes! To stay fresh at home I clean out my craft/quilting room. Rearranging things helps me fall back in love with the fabrics and supplies I already have and lets me really see everything in a new light. It gets the creative juices flowing again with new inspiration. :)

Karen said...

I love the Barcelona new line. That's my kind of color palette!

Gale, Ky quilter said...

Like you, I must stay away from so much social media . . . facebook, pinterest, quilting blogs to stay content. Everyone has new fabrics or techniques or patterns & I can't have them all! So, I try to cut my time in these places & take a look around me and count my blessing with what I do have . . . which is plenty, believe me. I think all quilters or fabric lovers struggle with this. There is only a certain amount we can sew, buy or try so just do what you can do!!!! And be happy!!!! That's my strategy. :)

Lorna McMahon said...

Thanks for sharing your experience. Yes, we should all be thankful for what we have. And for the talents God has given each of us. Thanks for the inspiration!

Quiltsmiles said...

It osunds like youare embracing a more authentic lifestyle, good for You. With age comes wisdom and te contentment of being yourself.

My favorite line is that Lush Uptown. Wiping the spittle off my chin. ;) lol Jane

Regina said...

I have to say I love Sunnyside the best. Kate is just stupendous!

Regina said...

I stay content in my home by hanging with the hubs. He is basically a beige person, so when I get too wacko with colors, he reigns me in!

Anonymous said...

I like the sweet serenade the best(smjohns63 at yahoo dot com)

Anonymous said...

I just do my own thing and every thing has its own place , I like things nice and orderly lol.
(smjohns63 at yahoo dot com)

Tracy said...

I like the Over the Rainbow fabrics...so bright!

I'm typically content in my own place and own life...try to remain in the moment as best I can. It never hurts to dream a bit, but I'm thankful for all the positive things in my life.

KT said...

I love lush! I stay at home with my little boy, he keeps me smiling and content all day long.

Rosyquilter said...

Thank you for your post... I get caught up in Pinterest and all the blogs I subscribe to and keeping sighing and wondering where I will ever find the time to make the quilts I keep seeing and loving. I need to spend less time on the computer and more time with my machine. Love, absolutely adore, the modascapes. Modern fabrics are lushious but am still drawn to using more country colours.

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